10 signs that it is time to leave
Beginning of the year - the best time to take stock, to build grandiose plans for the future, but still ... think about relationships in which you are. It is possible they have long outlived their usefulness and it is time to move on. Wonder about whether your relationship is healthy - completely natural. But if some of the symptoms listed below will seem very familiar - it is worth considering whether they should continue. In the opposite case - what could be better than starting the new year knowing exactly what you have in your relationship everything is fine?
10. If some stupid show suddenly seems much more interesting.
Suddenly you start to spend a lot of time doing any nonsense, which used to have no interest - if only to avoid intimacy with their partner. You can suddenly get excited about new series, find a new hobby, or simply start to sleep more, but the avoidance of "excess" of sex - an obvious sign that your relationship something changed. If you have caught myself on the fact that you are using any excuse not to find time for intimacy, most likely it is time to ask yourself the question - why? If you do not want just sex with your partner, it's time to reconsider your determination together.
9. If your work begins to take up all your time.
Just as with the previous point - the use of work in order to spend less time with your partner - a very common symptom of the coming separation. Sitting up late at the office, you can simply try to avoid a collision with the problems in the relationship, waiting for you at home. Remember: avoidance of a partner does not make your relationship better, but a frank conversation about why you do not feel happy - could. Share your doubts and listen to what your partner has to say in response to you. You either solve a problem or come to a joint conclusion that both of you is no longer needed. In any case, we should not let the romance take place in your life.
8. If you are serious, "sunk" on someone else.
If you are seriously interested in new sympathizers or, even worse, already have a certain nominee - it's time to move on. By themselves, the fantasy of a parallel reality in which you are free - it is quite normal. But the fantasy of your life together with another person - not very. If you catch yourself in the daily thoughts of someone else, time to say goodbye to your partner. Even if you are not already interested in your current relationship, your spouse deserves to you their first completed before rush headlong into the maelstrom of a new passion.
7. If one of you changes.
This is a very difficult question of any relationship, in which people are usually divided into two opposing camps. Some people believe that cheating - it's terrible, and the one who changed, having learned about it, is to end the relationship immediately. The latter believe that cheating - it is only a symptom of problems in a relationship that you can try to solve together. No matter what camp you are not treated, remember that change is always very painful for the second side. Treason increase the level of stress, anxiety, and the probability of catching an STD, most often, after all, lead to a parting.
6. If your partner you Weirdly annoying.
When your partner starts you just piss off - a sure sign that the romance in your relationship came to an end. Suddenly, what seemed to you in your second half sweet and fun, it is simply disgusting - whether it's nail biting, loud leaping laughter or inability to do the dishes. When that annoys you in your partner, it becomes more of what you him or her love relationship with time to say goodbye. Both parties in the relationship deserve to be appreciated and respected. Just imagine, for example, how much happier you will be, as soon as the last stop in the sink to find the hair.
5. If the intimate relationship began some "not so."
We already know that avoiding sex - a symptom of approaching the end of a relationship. And what to do, if you just think that something with it, "wrong"? You may feel that your partner no longer kisses you like they used to, or from sex completely gone spontaneity, or maybe sex - is, in fact, the only time you're happy. Changes in sexual life (qualitative or quantitative) suggests that a shift has occurred in your relationship. It remains only to find out in which direction. Often, sex is a reflection of what is going on in your head. If you feel that you have neglected, or lost interest in themselves - suffering your sex life and, as a result of the relationship. However, if you are not ready to "shoot from the hip" - it is possible to discuss the changes that you feel with your partner - it is quite possible, he or she will feel the same way, and you will eventually be able to ignite the passion again.
4. If you are afraid of being alone.
Very few people have ever visited in my life thought: "this relationship is better than nothing." If you keep in touch just because the idea that you have to go to the wedding without a pair of friends or to do all the housework, leads you in horror, perhaps you should think about its termination. Staying in a relationship, despite the boredom, lack of desire, if not abuse, and violence, solely out of fear of being alone - bad idea. Perhaps you belong to those who "have always been in a relationship" and simply afraid of the unknown. More than ever, it is important you find yourself before you start to think about what you want from the relationship. You are unlikely to need the entire journey in the spirit of "Eat. Pray. Love ", but there are so many interesting things, you just have to learn to enjoy it.
3. If you think that your partner will change.
Some people prefer to be in an unhealthy relationship, because they are waiting for the second half is about to change dramatically. For example, quit smoking, will drink less, will finally normal operation, well or do magical change operation character. Here's a naked truth: it will not happen. When in a relationship there is some obvious problem, it may seem that its solution all at once magically fix. For example, couples who experience problems with conception, often hope that the appearance of the baby immediately to "repair" all in their relationship. Unfortunately, it is not. If you sit back and wait for change - you can pack your bags. You just become themselves thereby change which so wait.
2. If you have lost in the relationship itself.
The important thing is this: it is not necessary to go to endless concessions and sacrifices, as a result of which you no longer recognize myself. Most of us - still more or less worthy individuals trying to make "the best". However, if you are in a relationship that makes you think you are - a bad person and generally worthless creature, it's time to look for escape routes. Frequent disputes and abuse, jealousy and lack of sexual satisfaction can wake up "the beast" in each of us. But if you feel that a good attitude changed forever contempt - to leave, it is too late. No relationship is not worth it to doubt his character, especially if you are generally sure that you are not such a bad person.
1. If you have read up to this point.
If you are in a healthy relationship, you are unlikely to read about all of these are signs that the time for you to leave. If you read the article about the separation on the Internet, chances are that your relationships do not suit you, it is very large. You want the truth? - Trust your inner instinct! Your natural instincts are pushing you to take decisions to ensure that you stay healthy and happy. And if you have in your head is ringing an alarm "bell" - listen. Only you know how you feel in certain respects, and what you want from your partner.
Love one another and be happy in the new year!