Male victim behavior. Stories of men, raped women
It just so happened that many Westerners believe that to go through any trauma, whether newly diagnosed incurable illness, bereavement or sexual violence, it is always easier in a team of the same affected. All kinds of support groups have become part of the mentality and culture "of foreign" countries.
And one of such groups devoted to the problem, which is usually discussed in public is not taken from the word "all". Although sexual violence has long been the bane of many cultures and countries, and rape almost led crime statistics in the criminal reports, the majority of people in the world still believe that rapists can only be a representative of the stronger sex. Today we will try to refute this misconception and will tell you about a few stories that have decided to share with the public men who have experienced sexual abuse on the part of women.
1. "I begged her not to do it a million times,"
One of the anonymous users are support groups for the raped women, which for simplicity of the narrative will be called John, he admitted that he was relieved when I finally was able to talk about what she had done with him his girlfriend when he was twenty-one . John said that this day was the worst day in his life. The young man did not know that when a friend invited him to tie it at the time of sex, it is not expected that what he expected. Once a criminal, like a spider, firmly tied to the bed of her lover, instead of erotic caresses, he suddenly felt in his anus foreign object, which is very strongly vibrated. Abuse continued for more than seven hours, after which nasilnitsa left their victim bound and went to watch the evening news on TV.
John went to the police, however, he was ashamed to talk about their experiences a nightmare before the jury in court, so the girl had destroyed his life, to escape punishment.
2. "My friend was bleeding and badly hurt"
Another member of this group support, let it be David, with tears in his eyes tells of a terrible incident that happened to him about two years ago, when he was fourteen. Sixteen year old young man recognizes the woman, abused him, he was much older than him. Without going into details, David said that nasilnitsa firmly held him, not allowing to move, and with a laugh, ignored all his requests to stop bullying.
After it was over, she just turned around and walked away with a smile on his face, and David lay twisted on the bed. "My friend was ill and was bleeding badly," - says David. Now a man complains that this case ever ruined his mind and instilled in him an insurmountable fear of the opposite sex. Although he sincerely tries not to remember the events of that night, the fear and humiliation experienced by pursuing it ever since.
3. "She said she was going to kill me"
Another hero of this article, let's call him Charles, he confessed to his brothers in misfortune that for many years concealed even from those closest to you. Carl says that rape began to him as consensual sex. However, all sharply gained much darker character when his occasional partner, whom he met on one night, beginning to choke him directly during sexual intercourse. The girl, who according to Karl, was physically stronger than him, a young man caught by surprise, so there was nothing he could not oppose the surprise attack. Without stopping sexual intercourse, the young lady was clutching his throat to his partner until he almost lost consciousness. Laughing, criminal told him that he would kill him as soon as finished. Although this threat, fortunately, there was only a threat, it has gone through a horrible experience completely changed the life of Charles. The man can not be in the company of the fair sex, and completely stopped sexual activity.
4. "They said that if a girl is raped Man, it's just an experiment"
On the terrible and shocking case tells another man, a survivor of childhood abuse by women. The story of Alex (a name coined) makes goose bumps on the back, because in addition to the perverse cruelty nasilnitsy, even more disgust is gross negligence on the part of law enforcement protection.
Despite the fact that it happened when he was only four years, the horror imprinted in memory of Alex so far. Despite the shame and the humiliation, a four-year child yet the parents admitted that made him a fifteen year old neighbor girl. Juvenile pervert compelled the child to engage in oral sex with her, and mocked him physically and mentally. When shocked Alex's mother called the police with the requirement to protect her son and punish a criminal, the detective on the other end just laughed. The police said that if a girl is sexually mocks the boy, it's just an experiment. To the question "what would you say if fifteen teenager raped a four-year girl?" The detective simply hung up.